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Especially as, by general definition, newbies, Rico and I are always looking for ideas. Ideas for rules, activities, or even punishments, that will enhance the lifestyle and power exchange.
I found this list here, but these are the ones I like and [might] consider one day. Some are added by me, while others may be altered to fit my tastes. ;) The wording is directed at the S/O.
*Edit: If this strikes your interest at all, take the time to read it! It really is worth it (I think, anyway).
~~~
1. Have her wear "slave/submission" bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a type of reminder of her submission.
2. When she has broken a rule, talk to her as You punish; make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.
3. Make her take her shoes off every day as soon as she enters Your house.
4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave/submissive joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.
5. Have her call You each day at a specified time, no excuses.
6. Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.
7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her kneel before You and ask to accompany You upon the furniture.
8. Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to Your specifications.
9. Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever You come into the room (i.e. legs spread, shirt unbuttoned). No matter what position You take, she is to be sure Your view is unobstructed.
10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has a specific alternative title for You besides Master (such as: "my Love," "Darling," etc.).
11. "Use" her sexually in a rough, selfish way when You feel like it; interrupting whatever she was doing.
12. Choose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.
13. Have her crawl to bed at night.
14. Bring her a stuffed animal each time You go out of town. *g*
15. Choose her clothing each day.
16. Have her get Your daily wardrobe ready for You the night before (i.e. laid out, ironed, etc.).
17. After punishment, have her kiss Your boots/feet and thank You for loving her enough to correct her.
18. Have her bring a warm towel and wash/massage Your feet each day after work.
19. Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).
20. Get her pierced (or, preferably, if You are trained, do it Yourself).
21. Get her branded.
22. Respect, but push her limits.
23. Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and, also, makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.
24. Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.
25. "Reward" her by allowing her to please You sexually.
26. Supervise her workout routine.
27. Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with You, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank You for the privilege.
28. Have her polish Your boots weekly; on her knees and at Your feet.
29. Negotiate, until you are both comfortable with the terms, and then sign a contract.
30. Give her a writing assignment: (i.e."The definition of Pain - 1000 words," "The definition of Obedience," etc.).
31. Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission.
32. Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.
33. Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do; even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.
34. When appropriate, she is to speak only when spoken to.
35. Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.
36. When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.
37. Have her keep her body cleanly shaven at all times.
38. Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.
39. Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.
40. For transgressions, have her write Your name on the bottom of her foot and tell her to remember she is walking on You with each step. (It is harder to do that than You might think...)
41. Master the art of the meaningful, piercing stare.
42. Give her reading assignments.
43. Test her on the reading assignments to make sure she learned the "appropriate lessons" from each.
44. Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed.
45. Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.
46. "Reward" her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.
47. Call her Your (i.e. slut, pet, girl, etc.).
48. Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable, or embarrassed.
49. Work with her, having her do the things on the list (if possible), so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.
50. Sometimes, pamper her. Wash her body and hair; have her remain perfectly still as You turn her and move her about.
51. Hand feed her like a small child (on occasion).
52. Have her eat from a dog bowl (on occasion).
53. Praise her dedication when she has pleased You well.
54. Instruct her that (when it suits You) she cannot touch Your body without permission.
55. Have her write a "meditation" about her submission, devotion, and trust in You. Have her say it aloud each night before falling asleep.
56. Have her memorize the "meditation" she wrote so that she can recite it on demand.
57. Some days, allow her no clothing whatsoever (when practical).
58. For transgressions, deny her "play."
59. Along the same lines, for transgressions, deny her orgasm (i.e. give her sex, but don't allow her to cum).
60. For transgressions, command that she is to be silent for a week. She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure You give as silently as possible.
61. Have her wear a toe ring you picked out for her.
62. Tell her one morning that she must cum for You 15 times that day. Then, have her write about it (if it suits You).
63. Have her wear nipple clamps, under her clothing, out to dinner.
64. On Your birthday, let her receive Your spankings. *g*
65. Spend time training her how to move gracefully; in a way that pleases You.
66. For transgressions, have her stand/kneel in the corner (for variety, have her kneel on uncooked rice, on hard surfaces, or in awkward positions).
67. Defend her honor to those who would disrespect Your "prized possession."
68. Pet/caress her often.
69. Whenever possible, have her sleep in a cage.
70. Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to Your liking.
71. Teach her things. Expand her knowledge in a patient, Fatherly way.
72. When You are away, call her and have her masturbate for You.
73. Remember all special occasions.
74. Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.
75. Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day, and make sure it is done by the day's end.
76. Teach her patience.
77. Videotape Your "sessions" and watch them together.
78. On long trips, have her wear double dildo latex underwear.
79. Hand feed her chocolate.
80. Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside, or the buckles buckled; inspect them periodically.
81. Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book. Let her slip for a while, thinking You are not noticing, then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement. ;)
82. Tickle her - just because You can.
83. Have her be perfectly still and quiet while You bring her extreme pleasure. When/if she moves, or makes a sound, punish her... but then return to the pleasure.
84. Keep her locked in her collar when You are home. You place it on her while she kneels. Wear the key to the lock around Your neck.
85. When possible, have her cook and serve Your dinner - wearing nothing but an apron and collar. *g*
86. Buy her a Polaroid camera and tell her to take pictures of herself for You (i.e. in certain outfits, positions, etc.).
87. Remember to kiss and caress away her tears.
88. But don't be afraid to bring her to tears.
89. Caress her, whisper into her ear that You love her, nibble on her belly, lick her thighs and make love to her until she cries (if possible).
90. Have her fall asleep with Your c*ck in her mouth and tell her You expect it to be there when You awake.
91. Occasionally, fulfill her fantasies.
92. Your word is the last word.
93. Make sure that she is safe at all times; when with You and when You are apart (to the best of Your ability). Keep her vehicle in good working order, make sure she has emergency money, and a cell phone to call for help (if needed).
94. Be consistent.
95. Take the time to talk to her. Learn her fears, her dreams, and fantasies. Use Your knowledge.
96. When You go out of town, forbid her to shave her sex. Shave her Yourself when You return.
97. Specify exactly how she will address You in private and in public.
98. Have her stay within a certain distance from You (i.e. 10 ft.) when you go out together; unless she asks permission to go elsewhere and You choose to grant it.
99. Choose a designated side of You (left or right) that she must sit, stand, or walk at.
I found this list here, but these are the ones I like and [might] consider one day. Some are added by me, while others may be altered to fit my tastes. ;) The wording is directed at the S/O.
*Edit: If this strikes your interest at all, take the time to read it! It really is worth it (I think, anyway).
~~~
1. Have her wear "slave/submission" bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a type of reminder of her submission.
2. When she has broken a rule, talk to her as You punish; make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.
3. Make her take her shoes off every day as soon as she enters Your house.
4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave/submissive joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.
5. Have her call You each day at a specified time, no excuses.
6. Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.
7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her kneel before You and ask to accompany You upon the furniture.
8. Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to Your specifications.
9. Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever You come into the room (i.e. legs spread, shirt unbuttoned). No matter what position You take, she is to be sure Your view is unobstructed.
10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has a specific alternative title for You besides Master (such as: "my Love," "Darling," etc.).
11. "Use" her sexually in a rough, selfish way when You feel like it; interrupting whatever she was doing.
12. Choose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.
13. Have her crawl to bed at night.
14. Bring her a stuffed animal each time You go out of town. *g*
15. Choose her clothing each day.
16. Have her get Your daily wardrobe ready for You the night before (i.e. laid out, ironed, etc.).
17. After punishment, have her kiss Your boots/feet and thank You for loving her enough to correct her.
18. Have her bring a warm towel and wash/massage Your feet each day after work.
19. Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).
20. Get her pierced (or, preferably, if You are trained, do it Yourself).
21. Get her branded.
22. Respect, but push her limits.
23. Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and, also, makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.
24. Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.
25. "Reward" her by allowing her to please You sexually.
26. Supervise her workout routine.
27. Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with You, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank You for the privilege.
28. Have her polish Your boots weekly; on her knees and at Your feet.
29. Negotiate, until you are both comfortable with the terms, and then sign a contract.
30. Give her a writing assignment: (i.e."The definition of Pain - 1000 words," "The definition of Obedience," etc.).
31. Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission.
32. Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.
33. Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do; even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.
34. When appropriate, she is to speak only when spoken to.
35. Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.
36. When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.
37. Have her keep her body cleanly shaven at all times.
38. Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.
39. Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.
40. For transgressions, have her write Your name on the bottom of her foot and tell her to remember she is walking on You with each step. (It is harder to do that than You might think...)
41. Master the art of the meaningful, piercing stare.
42. Give her reading assignments.
43. Test her on the reading assignments to make sure she learned the "appropriate lessons" from each.
44. Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed.
45. Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.
46. "Reward" her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.
47. Call her Your (i.e. slut, pet, girl, etc.).
48. Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable, or embarrassed.
49. Work with her, having her do the things on the list (if possible), so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.
50. Sometimes, pamper her. Wash her body and hair; have her remain perfectly still as You turn her and move her about.
51. Hand feed her like a small child (on occasion).
52. Have her eat from a dog bowl (on occasion).
53. Praise her dedication when she has pleased You well.
54. Instruct her that (when it suits You) she cannot touch Your body without permission.
55. Have her write a "meditation" about her submission, devotion, and trust in You. Have her say it aloud each night before falling asleep.
56. Have her memorize the "meditation" she wrote so that she can recite it on demand.
57. Some days, allow her no clothing whatsoever (when practical).
58. For transgressions, deny her "play."
59. Along the same lines, for transgressions, deny her orgasm (i.e. give her sex, but don't allow her to cum).
60. For transgressions, command that she is to be silent for a week. She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure You give as silently as possible.
61. Have her wear a toe ring you picked out for her.
62. Tell her one morning that she must cum for You 15 times that day. Then, have her write about it (if it suits You).
63. Have her wear nipple clamps, under her clothing, out to dinner.
64. On Your birthday, let her receive Your spankings. *g*
65. Spend time training her how to move gracefully; in a way that pleases You.
66. For transgressions, have her stand/kneel in the corner (for variety, have her kneel on uncooked rice, on hard surfaces, or in awkward positions).
67. Defend her honor to those who would disrespect Your "prized possession."
68. Pet/caress her often.
69. Whenever possible, have her sleep in a cage.
70. Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to Your liking.
71. Teach her things. Expand her knowledge in a patient, Fatherly way.
72. When You are away, call her and have her masturbate for You.
73. Remember all special occasions.
74. Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.
75. Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day, and make sure it is done by the day's end.
76. Teach her patience.
77. Videotape Your "sessions" and watch them together.
78. On long trips, have her wear double dildo latex underwear.
79. Hand feed her chocolate.
80. Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside, or the buckles buckled; inspect them periodically.
81. Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book. Let her slip for a while, thinking You are not noticing, then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement. ;)
82. Tickle her - just because You can.
83. Have her be perfectly still and quiet while You bring her extreme pleasure. When/if she moves, or makes a sound, punish her... but then return to the pleasure.
84. Keep her locked in her collar when You are home. You place it on her while she kneels. Wear the key to the lock around Your neck.
85. When possible, have her cook and serve Your dinner - wearing nothing but an apron and collar. *g*
86. Buy her a Polaroid camera and tell her to take pictures of herself for You (i.e. in certain outfits, positions, etc.).
87. Remember to kiss and caress away her tears.
88. But don't be afraid to bring her to tears.
89. Caress her, whisper into her ear that You love her, nibble on her belly, lick her thighs and make love to her until she cries (if possible).
90. Have her fall asleep with Your c*ck in her mouth and tell her You expect it to be there when You awake.
91. Occasionally, fulfill her fantasies.
92. Your word is the last word.
93. Make sure that she is safe at all times; when with You and when You are apart (to the best of Your ability). Keep her vehicle in good working order, make sure she has emergency money, and a cell phone to call for help (if needed).
94. Be consistent.
95. Take the time to talk to her. Learn her fears, her dreams, and fantasies. Use Your knowledge.
96. When You go out of town, forbid her to shave her sex. Shave her Yourself when You return.
97. Specify exactly how she will address You in private and in public.
98. Have her stay within a certain distance from You (i.e. 10 ft.) when you go out together; unless she asks permission to go elsewhere and You choose to grant it.
99. Choose a designated side of You (left or right) that she must sit, stand, or walk at.
About me
- rivka
- The South, United States
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In Dreams
"And in dreams I am free
falling into what is not;
what will be what is.
It's this intense hatred
for reality twisted
in an obsession of hope
Defy the stagnant
life that speaks only
what can be but wills not.
God's grace,
not my self fear
of what I think
I cannot be."
-rivka
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- Bliatz
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